You're Not Doing This Alone

A private support space is part of the direction for Forget the Date. Community features are being planned carefully and are not active yet.

Ways to Connect

Find the kind of support that fits you

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Peer Circles Coming Soon

Small, private conversations for people navigating similar practical and personal circumstances. Schedule and facilitation details will be shared when available.

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Private Online Community Coming Soon

A quiet, private space for information and peer connection. The platform, moderation model, and availability are still being determined.

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Optional Check-Ins Coming Soon

Future check-in options may offer practical reminders or peer support. No text program is active at this time.

Any future peer support will be clearly identified and will not be a substitute for licensed mental health care, legal advice, or emergency services.

How It Works

Getting connected takes minutes

1

Tell us a little about your situation

A short, private form — no essay required. Just enough for us to point you in the right direction.

2

Learn what is being planned

We will share community formats, privacy practices, and participation details before any feature opens.

3

Show up whenever you're ready

There's no pressure to talk right away. Many members simply listen for the first few sessions.

Ask About Community Updates

Private community features are coming soon.

We are defining the right format and privacy practices before opening community access. Join the updates list through Contact if you would like to hear when details are available.

Ask About Future Access
In Their Words

What members say

The quotes below are composite examples reflecting common member experiences, shared with permission or adapted to protect privacy.

"I joined a peer circle two weeks after my wedding was called off. It was the first time I felt like someone actually understood instead of just feeling sorry for me."

— Community member

"The forum let me say things at 3am I couldn't say to my own family yet. That mattered more than I expected."

— Community member

"Daily check-in texts sound small, but on the hard days, that one message was the difference between getting out of bed or not."

— Community member
Important

If you're in crisis right now

Forget the Date is a peer-support community, not a substitute for emergency or licensed mental health care. If you are in immediate danger or crisis — including if you feel unsafe because of a partner or former partner — please reach out to a professional resource right away.

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988, US)
  • Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741 (US)
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 (US)
  • Your local emergency services number
  • A trusted licensed therapist or counselor